Younger men, many pros many cons. But my opinion isn't the be all and end all. During my research on the male demographic of the Jenner generation, I was curious what it is about us "auld ones" that tickled their fancy.
If you have a plethora of similarly aged women, fresh meat in very little clothing, who are more than happy to get freaky with you. Then why do you look past them to a more cougarish woman damaged by gravity, too much sun and a few too many cocktails back in the day?
My hands-on research was proving too slow. This post would have taken 12 months to write had I only taken the opinion of those I dared to get down and dirty with. So I sent out questions into the ether of the internet. I want to understand the other side of the dynamic.
My questions were answered.
Here's a breakdown of some of the more enjoyable opinions of the younger crowd. Why they prefer an older lady.
When experience speaks, the young and inexperienced will listen. If they are intelligent, and learn.
- Anonymous, Fetlife
Older Dommes can have a really powerful Yoda effect. So much wisdom, so many more things to explore. My favorite Domme I ever had the opportunity to interact with was nearly 70 and I was under 30. So many times I'd walk away thinking "I didn't even know my mind could bend that way"
- Anonymous, Fetlife.
I have done it once(and by once I mean an intense two weeks). I was in my early twenties and she was 38. She was beautiful and ridiculously sexy, but the best part, in my opinion, is she knew what she wanted. She'd been through her expirimental stage when she was younger so she just took what she wanted. I learned some valuable things for later, and she got a, let's be honest, young dummy who could keep going.
all of my relationships have all been with Women 14 years or better my age. I was always taught to be courteous and polite to all Women such as, opening doors, walking on the sidewalk closest to traffic etc. I just adore the Mature Female!
I would say its the general understanding that an older woman knows exactly what she wants, and rigidly defined goals/values/desires are essential to a Domme.
There's definitely a trend here. Us older women do have something going for us. Apparently, that's confidence, knowing what we want and pure unadulterated sex appeal. I'm enjoying this far too much. Stay tuned because next week we'll be taking the womens opinion. Why do women dare to go younger?
As always, this is a conversation, add your thoughts below. Both sides.